…and want to know how to connect to your queer identity when you live in a straight world. The Bi Life is for you.

…and not only is your male partner /husband accepting of your bisexuality, he is excited to have threesomes with you so that you can experience sexual intimacy with a woman. You have taken him up on that but realize this was more for him than it was for you, and you would like to experience this on your own without his presence, but don’t know how to do that. The Bi Life is for you!

…and can’t figure out what to do about the nagging feeling that you are missing an integral part of your identity. A part of you shows up and starts questioning why you are giving this energy. Does it even matter that you have these feelings? The Bi Life is for you!

…and find yourself wondering, “How do I find meaningful connection with people like myself when my life looks super straight?” , The Bi Life is for you!

…and want to explore ideas for managing the longing to be with a woman when you can’t act on it. The Bi Life is for you!

…and are wondering how women who have enjoyed sex with men on some level, or at some point in their lives conclude they are lesbian rather than bisexual today. The Bi Life is for you!

…and feel the temptation to downplay this part of your identity since you've "made your choice" to be partnered with a man and everyone around you is very comfortable with that, except for you, The Bi Life is for you!

"Working with Samantha has been such a productive investment in my emotional health. I had been trying to work through this quandary on my own, but I kept ending up paralyzed by fear and unable to move through indecision to a healthier place.

Samantha’s skill in asking just the right question at just the right time allowed me to get clarity on the best ways to progress forward. Being able to access her through asynchronous coaching between live sessions kept me feeling fully supported, like she had her hand on my back the whole time. It was an incredible relief to share with someone who truly understood (from personal experience) and such a benefit to have her coaching enhanced by her training & experience as a LMFT."

Trish B. Jasper, Canada

“Samantha gave me a very special space to question many of the ideas and assumptions I had about myself in the safest, most gentle and most supportive way. In this special space, this is where little by little I began to find myself…

This is where I began to distinguish between those beliefs I had that were so deeply rooted in society's conditioning and expectations (that I didn't even realize the choice wasn't mine to begin with) and those ideas that I consciously chose simply because they resonate deep within me regardless of anything or anyone.

And slowly, I began to replace the "shoulds" with my "wants" and limiting old beliefs with empowering new ones, realizing how amazing and empowering it is to be ME in all my uniqueness.”

S.L.

“My journey to self-discovery and emotional freedom began with just one coaching session with Samantha; it was transformative. After battling anxiety and questioning my sexual identity for the past several months, I realized therapy alone was insufficient. I needed a life coach who could meet me where I am currently and equip me with emotional tools. Samantha created a safe space for vulnerability from the beginning. I openly shared my struggles, even crying at first.

However, by the end of the session I felt at peace. Samantha asked insightful questions and drew from her own experiences, personalizing our session. We discovered that from a young age I was conditioned to ignore my feelings and make decisions based solely on “doing the right thing”. The conditioning of my upbringing has caused me to constantly seek control. Now this tendency manifests as anxiety around my identity.Samantha’s coaching sparked “happiness” within me. By the end of our session, I felt ready to mediate and fully experience every emotion, for however long I needed to feel. I did just that, and it was cathartic. Afterwards, a calmness washed over me that I had not felt in months.

I know this journey will not be easy, but at least I now have the tools to feel my emotions, accept myself and embrace what comes. I’m excited to join Samantha’s 12-Week Late Bloomers Bootcamp as I am ready to lean more into self-exploratory work and to connect with a community of women on a similar path. Previously, I thought I was alone; Samantha has shown me otherwise. My journey has only just begun.

Thank you, Samantha.”

D.P.

“Coming out later in life after living a disingenuous straight life for over thirty years was both terrifying and exhilarating.

Shedding the pretense of heteronormativity and embracing my authentic inner tom boi while feeling comfortable in my own body for the first time was, and continues to be life-giving.

Having Samantha there to help guide me through this process was incredible. She taught me about being true to myself and embracing myself as I am unapologetically.”

Stephanie F., New Jersey

“Feeling like I didn't fit in, like there was something off or wrong, having relationships that never felt like that soul level...it all makes sense now. I was never myself. I was always trying to play the part that everyone else wanted me to play.
There was no way that I was going to live at my highest potential or be the best person that I could be staying straight, cisgendered and people pleasing, doing all the things that society wanted me to do - I was going to be mediocre.

Now I feel so much pride for who I am. I feel excited, like I finally match who I am.”

K.G., Seattle

“My journey to self-discovery and emotional freedom began with just one coaching session with Samantha; it was transformative. After battling anxiety and questioning my sexual identity for the past several months, I realized therapy alone was insufficient. I needed a life coach who could meet me where I am currently and equip me with emotional tools. Samantha created a safe space for vulnerability from the beginning. I openly shared my struggles, even crying at first. However, by the end of the session I felt at peace. Samantha asked insightful questions and drew from her own experiences, personalizing our session. We discovered that from a young age I was conditioned to ignore my feelings and make decisions based solely on “doing the right thing”. The conditioning of my upbringing has caused me to constantly seek control. Now this tendency manifests as anxiety around my identity.

Samantha’s coaching sparked “happiness” within me. By the end of our session, I felt ready to mediate and fully experience every emotion, for however long I needed to feel. I did just that, and it was cathartic. Afterwards, a calmness washed over me that I had not felt in months.

I know this journey will not be easy, but at least I now have the tools to feel my emotions, accept myself and embrace what comes. I’m excited to join Samantha’s 12-Week Late Bloomers Bootcamp as I am ready to lean more into self-exploratory work and to connect with a community of women on a similar path. Previously, I thought I was alone; Samantha has shown me otherwise. My journey has only just begun.”

D.R., New Jersey