Unbox Your Queer Phobic Conditioning:
A Self-Led Program
Do you have a voice inside telling you…
…the only reason you are questioning your sexuality is because you are spending way too much time thinking about it?
…your sexuality is NOT important so stop thinking about this already?
…you are not attractive because you are not naturally ‘feminine' in your presentation?
…that you’ve enjoyed sex with men before which obviously means there is no way you could be gay?
…if you were queer or gay you would have known this when you were an adolescent?
…when you meet new people that you need to pay attention to whether or not they will be homophobic if you come out to them; and, then wonder how you explain this, your history, your situation…?
…not to trust yourself?
And if you keep going on with this line of questioning you will lose everyone and end up all alone and be filled with regret?
…thinking about any of this makes you selfish and a bad person?
…that you are a degenerate for having these feelings… so much so that you’ve been unable to bring yourself to tell ANYONE about this, not your parents, siblings, or your closest friends?
…that indulging in curiosities and fantasies about women is not loyal to your male partner and if you just stop doing that everything will be fine?
…you are just going through menopause and once that passes you will forget about all this?
If the answer to any of these is YES
Unbox Your Queer Phobic Conditioning is for you!
Learn about your emotional system and how it develops early in life
Deep dive into guided meditation where you learn how to ground into your SELF energy of today
Dive into the narratives and beliefs about emotion that you learned as a child
Experiential exercises to help you separate out early beliefs and learnings from what is true for you today
Soften the parts of you that are struggling with queer phobic conditioning through Self exploration and guided meditation
Explore your internal system and how it was impacted by societal conditioning and compulsory heterosexuality
Get the tools to work with your internal system and update the parts of you that are trying to ensure the survival of your inner child
Soften shame, guilt and anxiety so they don’t block you from moving forward in what is authentic to you in this lifetime
Why a Self-led Program?
As a society we have been burdened with generations of hetero-patriarchal and religious conditioning.
These belief systems, which have been taught from the beginning of our time here on earth, have given us a black and white blueprint that tells us the one RIGHT way to live in our world.
We were taught what was good or bad, right or wrong, selfless or selfish.
We were taught that there are clear rules to follow.
These narratives have been soaked into our internal systems before we ever had the chance to make a choice about what was right or wrong for us.
I’ve seen and heard from those who have been unable to get past feelings of guilt and shame on their own, and feeling stuck cycling in the same thoughts and feelings over and over again, with no end in sight.
What’s actually happening is your emotional system is trying to keep you safe, so you can survive, and in doing so, it’s not allowing you to access your adult Self of today.
If you are ready to get unstuck and try something different, this self-led program is for you.
You will gain the tools and skills to finally soften the parts of you that are keeping you stuck.
If you are ready to cultivate more ease and compassion within your Self and to make decisions about how to move ahead from a place of deep inner alignment, Unbox Your Queer Phobic Conditioning is for you.
Your authentic sexuality is part of your life force energy and your essence.
Freedom is at your fingertips…
I’m Samantha Fox, the Lesbian Curiosity Coach®
Back in 2002, when I was questioning my sexuality, I felt lost and didn’t know where to turn. Unbox Your Sexuality® is the resource I wish I had then, created specifically for you—so you never have to feel confused or alone the way I did. Since 2010, I’ve been dedicated to supporting women who are questioning their sexuality and coming out later in life.
This work fills me with excitement and purpose. My mission is to inspire, guide, and celebrate you as you navigate your journey toward authenticity.
Professional Experience
As a Sexuality Coach, I work with women around the world who are discovering that they may not be as straight as they once thought. I developed the Unboxing Method to guide them through a transformative journey, watching as they break free from the schemas and narratives they've internalized from growing up in a patriarchal society. The process unfolds in three powerful phases: unpacking, unlearning, and unleashing.
I am also a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in New York, with a private practice where I work with individuals and couples facing challenges in relationships, communication, sexuality, sexual issues, and intimacy. Drawing from a variety of therapeutic models, I create personalized approaches because I believe that no single method works for everyone.
Throughout my career, I’ve been honored to help women coming out later in life who are grappling with internalized homophobia, guilt, shame, and anxiety. I help them navigate the emotional hurdles of accepting, embracing, and fully embodying their authentic selves.
To provide a supportive space for women to explore, discover, and live their truth, I created the Unbox Your Sexuality® Programs—a global community where women can find solidarity and encouragement as they question their sexuality or come out later in life.
I am READY to Unbox My Queer Phobic Conditioning
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